Hello Alyce,

No, your thoughts couldn’t make someone “drop dead.” Your deepest anger would only affect you, not anyone else. And there’s no complicated karma or Divine will that resulted in his death. People die. The physical realm is the world of beginnings and endings. And sometimes people die whom other people really, really don’t like. That doesn’t mean they caused that person’s death.

More importantly, you need to let go of your guilt and your anger, if any anger is left. In the world of spirit, which we’re part of as much as those who have passed over, there is no malice, no condemnation, no judgment, and no punishment. All of those things are purely on the Earth plane. That neighbor is now with your son and has no ill feelings toward you. He undoubtedly wishes you would forgive him and have peace about what happened.

Don’t keep the guilt alive. You have the choice to let it go and feel peace. Your son and your neighbor both want you to be at peace about it and go on in love for them. Your gesture of love and forgiveness will do both you and them good. Let that happen. And soon you’ll feel the joy that you should have in your new relationship to you son. He hasn’t left you. You can speak with him at any time, and you’ll receive messages back in unexpected ways. But to do that, you just have to be open and peaceful.

Love and peace, Craig