Hi Stephanie,"I just don't understand why her, why us?"
I can feel the pain in your question. No answer is going to give you reasons that satisfy you. For you and your family, there is no justification for what has happened.
I do want to tell you what has happened, though. Your daughter has graduated. It seems as though this brief moment in eternity is all there is because we can't see out of the valley that is the Earth plane. And all that matters is in this life we can see and are living in now. But it's just one more school of many schools, and she's just over the hill where you can't see her, but she’s still very much with you. And when you graduate from Earth school, you'll go on to other lives together. You're only separated by time for a while.
She's very happy where she is, although she wishes she could communicate with you. She's with the people who love her. The things she wanted to do on the Earth plane, she's going to do now. All the while, she'll be growing and maturing. She'll be with you and help you as you continue your period in the Earth plane.
As to why she wasn't able to stay here longer, we don't know the reason. It had nothing to do with what has been happening in your life or hers. And it wasn't necessarily a choice she made before enrolling in Earth school, although it could have been. The Earth plane is the place of beginnings and endings, and some of the endings are tragic for us. But in eternity, they're only a day's time at school. And when that day's over, she'll come to you when you return home.
I know that's not much consolation. But it's true. She's still with and can communicate with you. She left school early, but you will have many schools you'll attend together. You'll have new adventures and new lives, with wonderful experiences you’ll share. This lifetime is just one short day in eternity.
And so, right now, you need to continue your lessons. Keep in contact with her for this brief time. And when you come together again, you'll have many wonderful stories to share. Be happy. Your being happy is something she desperately wants. Keep contact. Speak with her often and quiet yourself to wait for the response. You’ll learn to feel her presence.
Love and peace, Craig