I have heard about “Life contracts” that we “hire” before coming to the Earth and that we have to live. We choose the experience that we need for our spiritual growth and all the involved souls agree to participate on the experience. Let me explain better. I have some friends that have lost their kids, some in accidents, or illness. Two of my friends lost two kids in a car accident, another one lost her three daughters the same way. My question is, does their soul agree that they have to live this? It’s too much pain and each one has dealt with it differently. I wonder how a soul chooses to learn that way. Have you heard about this type of contract, does we pick our parents, sons, and the experiences that we live in this plane to growth spirituality?
Guiltiness is another matter with these parents, they feel they could have done something to change their children destiny, a lot of: “If I would have done this…” one of my friends, when the accident happened one of her children died instantly, the other two survived and were picked up by an ambulance and taken to ER. In the hospital the oldest one was diagnosed with "clinical death" and unfortunately died two days later. She feels guilty because when the accident happened she run behind the ambulance that had her other two kids and left the youngest son. Here are her words:

"I have not forgiven me to have left my son thrown in the asphalt, while I run behind the ambulances of my other two children"

Another friend took his little girl to a doctor, the doctor told him that his 5 year old daughter needed a Cardiac Catheterization and if they didn’t practice it, they would have the risk to lose her on a future, the risk at that moment was low and he pursued him that was the best option. His sense told him not to practice it, but he trusted on the doctor and they did it. His little girl asked him not to take her to the hospital; she died the day of the study. He feels guilty and regret because he didn’t follow what he was sensing. He thinks that his little girl is mad at him.

I have a lot of similar stories from the group that I participate, and honestly it is so sad to see these parents grieving and they need to know if their kids have forgotten them or if they have planned this before coming here. I believe in the afterlife and that they just feel love for us, but sometimes I don’t know what to tell them to make them feel better. Please let me know what you think about all this.

Thanks and best regards,
Claudia

 

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