Hi Craig - I admit to finding your website today, but your work intrigues me. I live in Michigan and may be taking a trip to IL for a session or two.
I have so many questions!
1. My ex-bf and father of my child was killed tragically in a car accident on January 2. Since then, several things happened that lead me to believe he's trying to communicate w/me. They are mere thoughts or impressions - or in one case an irresistable impulse. Are these common ways for the departed to communicate with us on Earth?
2. I understand your response to Preeti on wavelengths in the room being the medium by which we tune into the correct frequency. My question is, can a loved one be with me in MI and be with his mother in NY and his son in IL and his other son in FL at the same time? Or does he have to choose one of us? (Is that a silly question?)
3. I am still in grief over this loss. It hasn't even been 4 weeks. I am still so, so, so sad over his death. He fell asleep at the wheel, crashed his car, it caught on fire and he died. About 2 weeks ago I had a clear sensation and vision of what happened during his accident - I felt his soul slipping peacefully from his body, no pain, no fear - only relief and joy. Could that have been a message from him, or is it just my imagination?
4. I dreamed him one night after I had a very hard cry and expressed to my friend that I didn't feel my son's father around us, that I wanted him to visit me and hug me and tell me he loves us and is watching over us. That morning I woke at 5am, and went back to sleep where I had a profound dream. He and I left our son at home asleep while we went out. We were separated, and I called his cell phone to ask where he was and tell him we needed to go home. He told me he was "in Jackson" and that I needed to get myself back home. When I arrived home in the dream, I expected to see our son scared and crying because we had left him alone. Instead my son was smiling and said he had been playing with daddy. I walked into the bedroom and sure enough, Daddy was sitting there smiling at me. I said, "You're here!" And he nodded and said, "I'm always here."
Was that him, or just my brain playing tricks on me? I so much want to believe that he is with us, that he loves us, that he cares about us and hasn't completely left. And still I weep and cry and struggle to be grateful and thankful to him for all that he gave us while he was physically here. I miss him so much. Sometimes I am ... crippled by my pain and blinded by tears.
I plan to order and read your book. I do not have a healthy relationship with death, and have feared it since I was a child. This is the closest death I have experienced, and it is really throwing me for a loop. My son's father, my friend, my lover, my source of emotional stability, was only 35. The day he died, he was in SUCH a good mood, and kept saying "2010 is going to be my year. Something big is headed my way - I can feel it!"
Thank you for your response,
Nathalie
