i have been having a debate w/ someone re being selfless this person has a hard time believing that doing something for someone else when there is really nothing in it for themself other than making that person feel good BUT in return they feel good about doing it is a selfless act. they believe that since you are being rewarded by feeling good and that if you do something for someone else AGAIN knowing that it will make you feel good then that is not being SELFLESS... WHEW!!! anyways hope that makes sense what do you think?