Dear Craig
I have a relative who is a very angry person. The angry is accompained by resentment over past hurts etc as well as new perceived slights. The situation is becoming worse and I have two questions

1. It could be possible the person has a personality problem not diagnosed which makes them act in this way. I do not know this but I put up with a lot of difficult behaviour as I worry if I do not then I maybe failing to help someone who needs my help and therefore not confronting the tests i need to in life. I recognise that I am not a perfect person and it is wrong to judge.

2. Will this anger accompany the person into the afterlife. The person is old now? They are full of self righteous indignation, seem to lack compassion for others and yet claim to be spiritually evolved.

I know this person has very few people who care about them and I am trying my best to be a good person and try to be there for them. However I find it hard to cope with all the negativity.

Any insight will be gratefully received

Thank you

Sue