Hello Lucia,I understand what you mean. You're limiting your perspective to what we see on the Earth plane. Here, I am one person and you are another person. There is no other me and no other you. That strict limitation of our selves makes us frame all of our questions about our eternal lives with the perspective of our separateness and individuality.
This separation is only part of the rules of Earth school. We have allowed ourselves to be placed into a condition of mind that makes us believe we are separate and there is only one you and only one me.
We also believe the Earth is life and what comes next is the after life. Actually, the Earth plane is the dream or the simulation and the life we came from and will return to is the real life. Nothing physical has any permanence. It's all scenery.
We are one with each other, the Source, and the others around us. We ourselves are made up of all the individuals we have ever been. But we are one person and all of us together are one mind. We can only understand that by giving up on the Earth plane's illusion of separation. We also have to give up on space and time. They are separators, but they pertain only to the Earth plane. Outside of the Earth plane, there is no need for space, time, and separateness, although we will continue to have them as long as we need the comfort of being in an environment like the Earth plane.
So our other lives are only understandable apart from the Earth plane. They can't be understood using an Earth plane perspective. We are one with the Source, all others, and all the selves that are part of our Higher Self.
When we incarnate onto a plane such as the Earth plane, we become a new individual. We don't recall the other individuals we were.
Love and peace, Craig
Love and peace, Craig